Personal Christmas Traditions
The Christmas holidays are steeped in familiar, old traditions. Decorating our homes, trimming the tree, exchanging gifts, hanging mistletoe and many other traditions are staples of the season.
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And while these old traditions can create warm memories, you may be missing
out on something special. This Christmas season, take some time to consider
creating your own special family tradition. Perhaps a glimpse into my own
family's unique tradition will inspire you to discover one as well.
My Family's Personal Christmas Tradition
Many years ago, my mother became addicted to garage-saleing. She would wake
up bright and early every Friday and Saturday morning (year-round), retrieve
the newspaper from the driveway, and circle all of the garage sales near her
neighborhood that were listed in the classified section. Then, with a group
of 2-3 lifelong friends, she would begin her quest for that perfect 'gift'
that someone else was discarding. She rarely paid more than 50 cents for an
item. The gifts were usually slighlty worn, even a little broken. (In fact,
many times a perfect item would end up broken by the time she got it home.
She was a little clumsy). But by the end of each shopping trip, she would
arrive home with 10-20 items, that she would proudly display to my father.
He, of course, would usually groan, because he always knew that she would
be asking him to mend the broken pieces, or re-paint an old item. Needless
to say, by the end of a year, my mother had managed to accumulate hundreds
of 'special gifts', but had spent very little money doing so.
A few days before Christmas, it would then be my job to help her wrap all
of these gifts. She generally bought as many Christmas bags as she could find
(at garage sales of course), so the task was made somewhat simpler. All I
had to do was throw the gift into the bag, and mark it with a recipient's
name. How did I know who was to receive which gift? Well, Mom kept a running
list throughout the year which identified which item was reserved for which
member of the family. Of course, she often mis-labeled things, so the male
members of our family occasionally received nice lingerie, while the female
members would receive a new hunting cap!
But really, this was the point of the whole tradition. Our family has a wonderful
sense of humor. Opening up 100's of crazy, ridiculous gifts each year was
so much more fun than opening up one or two 'real' gifts. The standard question
when one of us would open a gift would be, "Ummm...what is this???". There were many times when we never could figure out what the gift was supposed to be.
A favorite thing to do was to trade gifts. If I received an ugly, strange
gift, I would barter with someone else for one of their strange gifts. The
entire process of opening semi-broken, often useless, but almost always funny
gifts, and then trading them back and forth, is a tradition that made our
family close as we shared our laughter with one another. (And believe it or
not, occasionally the gifts were actually useful and just what we needed!)
Mom has passed on now, but the memories of those wonderful garage sale Christmas's
will always be our most treasured memories.
Create a unique Christmas tradition in your family, and the memories will
last a lifetime.
About the Author
Author: Donna D. Fontenot
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